No matter what you are going through right now, trust that it is an opportunity for growth. Regard it as a challenge on the vast field of life and know that when you overcome it, there will be victory. We are not helpless. We are incredibly brilliant people. Each and every one of us. Some of us simply have not tuned into their own inner light. Many are lost because they do not know their potential, and so many people in the world are chasing temporary pleasures instead of diving into themselves and seeking out the hidden treasure, which is sustainable joy. Perhaps if you already know how incredibly brilliant you are, you can spend today offering love to others. Give encouragement where it is due and let your friends and family know how much they mean to you. Write a letter, send a card, be of service. We should all be doing more of this, especially when we are feeling down ourselves. I recall one Valentine’s Day when I didn’t have a valentine. My mom told me to “be a valentine” to others that day – and it really worked for me. It lifted my spirits, and it brought me a lot of joy, but more than anything, it was a clue that I already had what I believed I was lacking. Back then in my early twenties, I had no idea that I was the one I was searching for all along. My soul doesn’t “need” a mate. It is whole and filled with love. When I do meet someone who I want to share my life with, they will merely enhance who I AM.
You are stronger than you know. This is for certain. Human beings are incredible creatures. We are dynamic with powerful minds, eternal souls, and filled with emotions as great as the sea. When we are in discord with these three parts of ourselves, we feel lost, but when we follow the path that we were destined to walk while we are alive, we discover harmony within. If you are feeling lost, it isn’t because you’ve strayed in life; it is simply because you’ve strayed from your Self. I read someone’s post the other day on Facebook that said something about not following the path of God, and how this is “wrong.” After spending twenty years following God and failing miserably, and trying to stay within the fine margins of “right and wrong,” I understand now that God is not some separate entity from myself. The only way I can stray from God is if I’ve left myself behind in the wake of my running from who I AM.
Many times in life, we get into relationships that are painful, and we continue trying to make things work with that other person because we “love them.” I’ve done this a few times in my life. The truth is, that person is most likely a temporary mirror into yourself to see where you are still looking outside of yourself for wholeness. When you discover your own wholeness, you will not settle for a painful relationship. You will wait for the person who comes along and accepts you for exactly who you are without pressuring you into being something more, and who loves you unconditionally. Continue loving yourself until you get to this place of wholeness. Too many people settle because they do not understand their worth.
You are beautiful just the way you are, but if you feel otherwise, learn how to take care of yourself and nurture yourself so that you will feel beautiful. Eat foods that are nutritious. Take a stroll once a day. Exercise. Treat yourself like you would treat someone you actually love. If you aren’t doing the best for your body, mind and soul, of course you are going to feel bad about yourself. It is great to love your body, but if it isn’t healthy, then learn to nurture it. We are responsible for our health, not God – so take responsibility. Many times people live an unhealthy lifestyle and then expect God (through prayer) to turn that all around. Isn’t it exciting to know that you have control over your life? I know when I realized that I was responsible for me, that I became very conscious about my life. And this makes life very exciting and fulfilling. Don’t be lazy. Be set free and walk in your body as if it belongs to YOU. It DOES! You CAN have a healthy body by nurturing yourself and by taking responsibility for what you eat and how you live. This is not out of your control.
You can break free from anything – addiction, bad relationships, and cycles that no longer serve you. YOU have the power to change your life. You are limitless. You are a visionary. BE everything – you lack NOTHING. Know this and own it, then go out and share your secret with the world!